 Emotional Awareness & Life Coach * Sue Tosto
Today I want to talk about you and what you’re looking for in a relationship and in your life as well. Everything in life requires balance and consistent awareness with regard to ourselves and those around us, thus you have my services page . I provide a safe, non-judgmental environment for you to express yourself and move towards the relationship with either yourself or others that you have been searching for your entire life. The purpose of coaching is to mirror your life through the eyes of another who can see more clearly your strengths and weaknesses in a safe non-judgmental environment.
Personal knowledge and self awareness as to what you are looking for in relationships and life are crucial to developing and keeping a healthy and loving relationship. I don’t want you to settle for anything less than you deserve. Please see our Coaching Guidelines for a more detailed description about coaching.
None of us got a rule book in life that explains love, life and responsibilities and how to blend them together. Throughout life we develop patterns of behavior and relating to others through our parents; friends and by viewing other peoples relationships and/or lifestyles. Sometimes the messages we get in life are cloudy, however we assume it must be right because after all it seemed to work for everyone else right? Wrong. Each of us have different needs and expectations in all areas and relationships in life. To define what it is you are looking for in your own life, you need to be clear on who you are, what you are looking for in a partner and your needs within a relationship. In order to have the relationship you are looking for in your life you must be clear on exactly what it is you are looking for. This is where I come in to help you find what you are looking for in your life. No two relationships are ever the same. There is a relationship out there that is perfect for you.
In regard to life issues and having control over your own life, it’s important to determine what you’re values and beliefs are in order to live by them. Everything in life comes down to you and being aware of who you are and what you contribute in any given situation.
In regard to relationships, they require dedication and work. Some feel that perhaps that they should settle for the first nice gal/guy that comes along. I disagree. In your heart and mind you know exactly what your fears are; your needs and most importantly what your patterns are in life. Some of these patterns may be loving which enable you to work together with your partner in a relationship. Other patterns we take with us in life are not as positive and we can change our beliefs into more healthy and loving ones. You don’t have to change who you are as a person, however you do have a golden opportunity through personal growth to acknowledge your strengths and be clear on what you want in your life.
As we work together you will be able to:
- Define and express your personal needs and boundaries.
- Learn how to express yourself to others in a relationship/Communication.
- Define negative patterns of behavior in dating/relationships.
- Define your ideal partner.
- Create better personal awareness and confidence.
- Learn to trust your intuition in a relationship.
- Learn how to verbalize your fears; better express yourself.
- Heal and move past personal obstacles and fears.
- Decipher why you may become bored in a relationship.
- Establish dating patterns and stop attracting the wrong partners.
- Fit your relationship into your life, not your life into a relationship.
- Work through fears of abandonment.
- Appreciate your strengths and accomplishments and how they contribute to a healthy relationship.
- Remain who you are whether in a relationship or single.
Training & Education
- Coach Training Alliance
- 20 Years Life Experience Dating & Personal Growth
- 5 years of my own personal growth and awareness.
Services
E-mail Coaching
Instant Messenger Coaching
Personal One on One Phone Coaching
(Several packages available for IM sessions & Telephone Sessions)
All of the above includes questionnaires; e-mail support between sessions when it is via IM or telephone.
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